To forgive? Or to forget?

Was reading through one of my friends’ blog and this question suddenly just pops up.

“Should I forgive? Or just forget?”

I really wonder, sometimes is it just me that screw friendships up. I think I’m too extreme to people who let me down. I tend to just push these people into my block list too quickly. I hate people too easily. Sometimes when I look back, I feel bad about losing a friendship, but then I suddenly remember that these people have let me down badly, and then I don’t feel bad any more because the letting down part outweighs the feeling bad part, y’know what I mean? But after a long while this “hatred” kinda becomes weaker, so now I ask myself this question, should I forgive these people who have let me down in the past, or just forget about these friends totally?

I mean, I do have quite a few friends so I’m never in shortage of friends, but someone once said that it’s always better to have one more friend than one more enemy. When I choose to end a friendship that’s the reason I always give myself – I have more friends that are worth my time, I could do without one like these people. But then it would come to a point that I probably start to regret about ending a friendship because I think I’m being too rash. Some friendships get salvaged, while some are gone. I think there have been too many “friends” that I’ve lost over these years. So now the issue come again… should I forgive? Or should I just forget about them?

There are indeed a few people that I want to say sorry and shake hands and probably start our friendships all over again, but I don’t know if it’s even possible.