Trip.

Some of you may already know, I’ll be heading back to Singapore for the Lunar New Year.  It’s going to be a rather short trip – literally just for the Lunar New Year – so it’s going to be quite packed.  My itinerary is looking like this at this point of time:

30 January 2014 (Thursday)

  • Fly in from Hong Kong on SQ863, estimated to arrive in Singapore at 5:30 p.m.
  • Go home for reunion dinner

31 January 2014 (Friday)

  • Probably have to go visit relatives

1 February 2014 (Saturday)

  • Nothing on yet, hopefully there’s no relatives to visit

2 February 2014 (Sunday)

  • Church in the morning (haven’t decide which one to go)
  • University friends house gathering (wow, this is the 12th year we know one another)
  • AFC Champions League: Tampines Rovers vs South China at Jalan Besar Stadium

3 February 2014 (Monday)

  • Fly out of Singapore at 8:30 a.m. on flight SQ860, scheduled to arrive in Hong Kong at 12:15 p.m.
  • Maybe, just maybe, I’d go for the Lunar New Year Cup Fina at the Hong Kong Stadium in the afternoonl?

Let me know if you guys are keen for a meet up?  I do believe I would have the whole of Saturday free to meet people.

Flu.

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As I’m writing this, I’ve sat at home for the whole day, after being given a day of sick leave by my doctor.  I was down with the flu.

It’s actually not too often that I fall so sick that I have to take sick leaves.  I mean, for the past couple of years, I average about less than one day on sick leave, and for the whole of 2013 I don’t think I was so sick that I couldn’t turn up for work.  It looked like for last year, my illness always seem to know when they’d come visit – on the weekends or my leave (I was down with a bad cold when I was in Korea last February).  I guess in a way, my body likes to turn up for work.

But for today, I woke up with a very bad headache and muscle ache.  I’ve been having headaches for the past few days so I didn’t take too much notice, but the muscle ache came just like that.  The first thing I thought of was the flu, and true enough.  When I went to see the doctor he said that I was having the flu – the fever proved it – so he gave me all those medication and ask me to rest more.  In a way, I was relieved that I could take the day to try to recover, but once I remember the work at the office, I don’t think I could say I enjoy staying at home.

I think I’ll go have my lie-in now.  I could already imagine the sight that I would see when I stepped into office tomorrow. Ha!

 

Shield.

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The Senior Shield Final is always a very important day in the local football calendar, but it hasn’t been a happy day for me for 3 years in a row.

In 2011, South China led 3-0 at half time, only for Citizen to come back to draw 3-3.  The match went to penalties, and Citizen came away with the win.

In 2012, South China managed to pull back from going behind to Sun Hei, only to lose out again on penalties.

In 2013, South China was knocked out in the semi-final, losing to Citizen again.  I didn’t bother to go to the stadium to watch the final, I went barbecue with my friends instead.

So yesterday’s final was something of a vindication for me.  It wasn’t an easy day, and I was feeling rather uneasy.  The opponent was Sun Pegasus, which was enjoying its season so far, but seemed to have been going through a bit of a blip in recent weeks.  As for South China, let’s just say that the season hasn’t been too spectacular for the lads in red.  They were not playing too badly, but I can’t say that they have been playing well too.  Of course, results are the only thing that mattered, and if someone were to ask me to be second in the table with a cup final looming at this stage of the season, I would have taken it.

The match in itself was quite a thrilling one, pretty much end-to-end stuff, if you ask me.  My friends in the cheers squad were feeling optimistic, but with me being always a pessimist, I was always preparing for the worst.  A counter attack down the right flank saw Sun Pegasus scoring the first goal through Jaimes McKee.  The goal was spectacular – a mid-air volley at that – though it does make me wonder why McKee can’t score simpler goals like one-on-ones.  Ultimately it was his failure to convert an one-on-one chance in the second half that proved pivotal in South China’s comeback.  The reds scored 2 within 5 minutes – both by new recruits who were playing donning the famous red shirt for the first time – and the final was won.  Both goals oozed of class, the first one from a neat build-up, and the second was utterly outrageous – a powerful lob-shot by Andrew Barisic from all of 30 yards.  Our section in the stand broke into raptures and I could still feel the sting inside me right now.  South China held on for the win, and recapturing the Shield was just great, especially because of the way that the finals were lost in 2011 and 2012.

Now for the league… it’s going to be hard, but Kitchee isn’t invincible.  All it takes are 2 bad games, and we will be straight back into it.  And of course, the pleasant disruption known as the AFC Champions League.  I’m sure even the most optimistic South China fan isn’t going to predict advancement into the group stages, but it’s good to dream.

Moyes.

This was originally posted on the wall of a friend who was arguing for the case of David Moyes and I thought I might as well put it here to share with everyone, with some slight amendments.

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David Moyes.  Love him or hate him, he’s definitely on every Manchester United supporter’s lips now.  And for those of you who want to see the back of him, either look away now or read on and keep your mouth shut.

Is he incapable? I’m not too sure. Maybe his 10 years at Everton isn’t proof enough that he could handle Manchester United. But then again, going by this logic, the only manager who could handle Manchester United would have to be someone who has actually managed Manchester United before.

Is 6 months enough to determine if he is incapable? I’m not too sure. But just because he’s lost a couple of games everyone is calling him incapable. Nobody ever said anything about beating Arsenal, thrashing Leverkusen 5-0 at their own backyard. Incapable managers don’t beat Arsenal or Leverkusen 5-0 at their own backyard. Everyone only knows how to complain about losing to Newcastle, West Brom, Everton and Swansea at home, but nobody ever says anything about the comeback win at Hull, the victory against high-flying Arsenal or shutting Leverkusen five-zip at the BayArena.  For the uninitiated, Arsenal is top of the table now, Leverkusen is second in Germany.

Is there anyone better than him – and available? I’m not too sure. Everyone is mentioning names like Guardiola, Klopp, or even Sir Alex himself. But look, why would you want to leave a club you are managing decently well and take over what could be the most pressurizing job in the world right now?  And who’s to say Guardiola or Klopp or Mourinho could bring the best out of a team moulded by Sir Alex?

Some people say that players are not inspired to play for him. That’s the biggest piece of BS that I’ve ever head. To be honest, if that is indeed the case, I think it should be the players who should pack their bags and go, not the manager. This whole blame game focused only on how David Moyes is not doing a good job, but nobody even remotely tried to say anything about the players. I believe if Moyes had the chance to build a squad that he wants to build, things could be very different.  You may say a great leader must be able to motivate his players to play for him, which is true.  But I think a leader should also have the right to get rid of people who are disinterested and unmotivated to be under him.  I didn’t think Sir Alex Ferguson could motivate all the players he’s ever managed, and for those whom he couldn’t, he simply showed them the door.  It didn’t matter how big a star he was.  And If he could motivate everyone and turn them into worldbeaters, we won’t be making jokes off Sebastian Veron, Eric Djemba-Djemba, Kleberson and Kieran Richardson. Would we?

So I’d say get off his back and let him try to get things right. He sees the players everyday at the training ground and I believe he is trying to fix things. I’d only worry if he’s looking disinterested like some of the players.

Rewind 2013.

So after almost a week, I finally am getting down to do this review of the year.  Compared to the previous year, I think 2013 had been pretty good for me.  There were many good things that have happened to me and as someone who don’t really remember things that upset me, I guess this review should be a little more positive and pleasant to look at.

January 2013

I started the new year with a new church.  After being with the Shatin Baptist Church for 3 years, I thought that I needed a bit of a shake-up within myself and I found it at the Christian Faith Hope Love Church.  It was nice to be able to enjoy the fellowship with people around my age with similar life experiences and going through similar paths.  The experience at the new church was a bit hard because it was nothing that I was used to, but with the help and love of the brothers and sisters I think I am adapting pretty OK.  There are still tough times, but I’m sure I could pick up my spiritual life.

February 2013

This has to be the best month of my life.  Initially when I decided that I would visit Korea in this month, I didn’t know it would be a trip that would changed my life.  I thought it would just be another trip on my own, with the primary objective being to experience real winter again.  In the end I managed to find myself a whole bunch of new friends that I would turn out to treasure so much.  Of course, watching the AFC Champions League for the first time in my life was something worth remembering too.  One bad thing about the trip though was that I came back to Hong Kong with a bad cold!

March 2013

March was also a memorable month.  First it was me joining Toastmasters.  I think it was probably one of the best decisions that I’ve made this year.  Initially things were a little patchy, but after a while and getting to really know the people well, I think I’m having a good time!  The second thing that was really memorable was the football match between Hong Kong and Vietnam at the Mong Kok Stadium.  A sell-out crowd, non-stop cheering and singing, and Hong Kong winning 1-0 were all ingredients of a great night.  Work-wise, there had been some changes and to be honest, I was happy with those changes.

April 2013

April was low-key, with the only highlights being South China and Manchester United winning the league championship in Hong Kong and England respectively.

May 2013

May, as usual, was reserved for Mayday.  But since I have been to Mayday concerts every year, I was slacking off quite a bit this year – I only went for one show this year.

June 2013

Had the chance to be a “teacher” and brought some students to Singapore for a visit.  I was lucky in a sense that the students I brought were bright and well-behaved, even though some of them did gave me a few things to think about.  I enjoyed being with them, because being with students made me feel young.  But if you ask me if I wanted to go back to teach, I’d probably say no!  Besides that, another highlight would probably be the failed promotion exercise.  Of course God has His way of planning for things, and looking back now, I was glad that the promotion didn’t happen then.

July 2013

July was a good month as far as football was concerned.  The Barclays Asia Trophy saw South China having the chance to take on Manchester City and Tottenham Hotspur, as well as Manchester United coming to Hong Kong to play Kitchee.  The weather didn’t help the games, especially in the Barclays Asia Trophy, in which the Hong Kong Stadium made international headlines by being a mud pool.  It wasn’t easy on us fans too, as we were braving the rain to cheer for South China – nobody gave us any credit and instead we got mocked by the Spurs fans.  I can safely say that Spurs is one of the teams that I have come to really dislike.  On a lighter note, my group of friends got to the Premier League’s tweet, and I was being photographed by gettyimages.  Boy was I not chuffed.

August 2013

My birthday month.  I had more than 60 friends saying happy birthday to me on Facebook, my church friends treated me to a great dinner, and I had a great chicken and beer session with my Toastmasters club friends.  I was always grateful about people remembering my birthday because it’s just one of the days in their lives.  I also took part in the Humourous Speech Contest of my Toastmasters Club and with a bit of luck, I came in second!  I was way chuffed.

September 2013

September was the month in which I started my new role at the office.  It was a promotion, even though it was only on an acting basis – meaning that I could be deployed back at my old position if things don’t work out.  The job has gotten tougher, but I was just happy to have been given the chance to do it.  As I said, God has His unique way of planning things, and I am quite sure that this was how He has thought things out for me.  I also had the chance to fly back to Singapore for a couple of days.  The trip would have been slightly different and I was slightly disappointed that it didn’t turn out the way I have hoped, but then again, things happen for a reason and I was happy with the trip home nonetheless.  It was always great to see my family and my friends.  Seeing Juana and Roland’s kid at 2 years old felt really surreal though!

October 2013

I went to Korea again.  And I think it was at this trip that I felt that I’ve left my heart there.  I also got to know more friends through the Toastmasters circle, and it would be safe to say that a part of me has got Korea stamped all over, and I can’t wait to go back again.

November 2013

I went for the Toastmaters District Conference in Huizhou and I must say that it was a great experience, to be able to witness great speeches and workshops.  Of course, meeting other Toastmasters from other clubs were great too.  To be honest, this year in the Toastmaster was just nothing short of spectacular for me, and I must thank my lovely Korean friend Minjung for re-introducing me to Toastmasters – that’s why I keep saying that the trip in February changed my life.  This was also the month in which I kind of became even more sure that I left my heart in Korea.

December 2013

The year ended on a high.  Went to Chengdu for a working trip and finally realizing how big the scale of the projects that I was handling was.  It was also a month for parties, as I went to several and really had a lot of fun.

Looking onto 2014

I know the new year has started for a few days already, but it’s still early anyway so there’s no harm in looking forward to things.  In a way, I think I had a blast last year, so anything on a similar level this year would be massive.  Some wishes last year didn’t come true, but as I’m one who’s never too down on things not working out, I guess it didn’t matter to me that much.  After all, life is always about ups and downs, and as long as you are alive, you’ll experience them.  So there’s really no point in getting overly happy or overly depressed about things.  Honestly speaking, not having a girlfriend was something that was always going to bug me (actually it bugged my parents more than me), but if I were to exchange the experiences that I had in 2013 for a girlfriend, I probably wouldn’t do so.  Some things didn’t work out as far as relationships are concerned, but I do believe God has His plans, just as how He planned for my career.  Just gotta believe in Him, right?

2014 is going to be massive.  It’s going to have ups and downs, but it’s going to be a blast in any case.  And if everything could work out the way I want the to be, I would be over the moon.

Review.

Usually I would do a recap of the year on the last day of the year.  But this year is a little special.  It’s not like it’s that special, but I kinda had too much to drink just now during the dinner with my friends so I’m not really sober in that sense, meaning that I can’t really remember that well what happened in 2013.  I mean, I could remember, it’s just that I couldn’t really put them into a proper journal entry.  But don’t worry, I’m do it very soon so that you won’t miss out on what happened in 2013 for me.

I kinda just came back from a rather mad dinner with my fellow Toastmasters Club members where they made me drink – it’s not like they were forcing me to drink, but it was more like none of them could drink very well so I was left with the task of not leaving any alcohol behind.  I wasn’t one who like leaving alcohol untouched, after all…

When I look back at 2013, I would say it was a really eventful year.  I had my fair share of ups and downs – it started with a down, but it definitely ended with an up!  I think I could probably say this only with the influence of alcohol – when 2013 first started I really hated it, because I started the year with a failure – I failed with my nth love subject, getting rejected yet again.  I thought I would never fall in love again.  But 2013 had really taught me that there were more to life than just romance.  And I end the year seriously thinking that I could fall in love with someone again, even though that person is kinda far from me as far as distance is concerned.  But you know you are in love with someone when you start missing her the moment you said goodbye!  I don’t know if things are going to work out, but even if it doesn’t I wouldn’t be too disappointed because I know I have all the great friends to back me up over chicken and beer.

If I have to sum up 2013 with a song, it probably would have been this:

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I know it’s an old song, but hey, we get knocked down, we get up again, and nothing is ever going to keep us down!  That should be the way we live our lives, right?